Posted on Wednesday 23 August 2006
In the simplest sense, sex bondage is the art of tying a partner up with the use of restraints. Bondage lovers describe it as pure ecstasy. When Americans were questioned on their views about bondage, popularly known as BDSM, 3/4 of American men interviewed admitted finding the act erotic, and even women found it pretty hot too.
On deeper terms, bondage sex is more than just being immensely turned on by the thought of a thick, rough rope prying your legs wide open. It is a lifestyle. With roles for each party.
Bondage games typically involve one or more dominators, and a few submissive types to have fun with. Bound, gag, spank, and pinch with nipple clamps – the usual. Dominating parties are sexually driven by the intense need to overpower another person. Submissive players are, ironically, some of the most powerful members of the community. But the submissive are always up for a stern chain around the wrists.